Four steps to building good emotional health

While emotional health and mental health have been used interchangeably, they do not imply the same thing. Licensed psychologist, Juli Fraga PsyD, says emotional health “focuses on being in tune with our emotions, vulnerability and authenticity.” A good emotional health fosters resilience, self-awareness and overall contentment.

While maintaining your emotional health in Nigeria can seem like an impossible task, it is achievable. It does not mean that you are constantly happy or free from negative emotions, as the environment will always have its challenges. However, it is about having the emotional intelligent skills and resources to manage the ups and downs that come with living in Nigeria.

Here are four steps to building a good emotional health in Nigeria:

Notice upsetting emotions when they arise

Taking note of when your emotions start to become disconcerting helps us to process them in healthy ways. For example, when hurt or angered by someone, instead of avoiding and letting it brew for so long, noticing and putting a tag on the emotions birthed from that experience will help you to either compassionately confront the person or set some healthy boundaries with that person. The opposite of that is lashing out at them, which will only further escalate the conflict.

Be curious about how you feel.

Maintaining a good emotional health in Nigeria seems difficult because there is not enough advocacy to be curious about your thoughts and feelings. Emotional health flourishes when you are curious about your thoughts, behaviours, reactions and feelings, and why they might arise at certain times.

It is important to ask yourself, “Why do I react this way?” or “What is it about my past that might lead me to have a strong reaction to a, b and c?”

Practice regularising your emotions

Emotions have the power to get the best of us, with every corner laced with potential off setters. However, learning coping strategies can help us temper them and cause us to respond rather than react to upsetting situations.

These strategies include

  • Meditation
  • Journaling
  • Listening to music.
  • Talking to a therapist.

Do not compromise on quality sleep.

The lack of quality sleep has been a major contributing factor to poor emotional health in Nigeria. Sacrificing sleep makes one more vulnerable to stress and anxiety. A 2018 study found that being sleep-deprived leads to more repetitive negative thoughts. Being overly tired can make you more emotionally reactive, which can negatively affect your outlook, performance and relationships. Having a consistent sleeping and waking up time can make all the difference between reactive and responsive behaviours.

Good emotional health is crucial to your overall well-being. If you have noticed your thoughts and emotions negatively affecting your performance, relationships and outlook to life, taking care of your core needs – like sleeping, talking about those feelings, and meditation – can significantly improve your emotional health.


Depression in Nigeria: Five facts every Nigerian should know

Depression is a mental health disorder characterised by a persistent loss of interest in activities, decreased energy, feeling of guilt or low self-worth, and poor concentration. This disorder, which currently affects over 322 million people globally, significantly impairs an individual’s ability to carry out everyday tasks and responsibilities, and could lead to suicide if not treated.

As life threatening as this disease is, it is unfortunate that conversations on depression in Nigeria are only topics of webinars and conferences organised by NGOs. To raise awareness on this serious health crisis affecting millions of Nigerians, here are five facts every Nigerian should know about depression.

  1. Depression in Nigeria is more common than we think

Depression is currently a major public health crisis with 7 million Nigerians suffering from it. Studies have shown that it is a very common occurrence amongst people faced with social adversities. A recent study has shown that a more significant prevalence of depression in Nigeria falls among young adults, elderly and IDPs at 25%, 26.2% and 17%, respectively. Other studies conducted among patients with chronic illnesses like stroke, leprosy and epilepsy have reported a high percentage of 27.5% to 46%.

2. Gender disproportions exist in occurrences of depression

As common as depression is globally, there is a disproportionate prevalence among genders. According to the WHO, females are 50% more prone to depression than males. Studies have shown that being female is a significant risk factor for depression in Nigeria.

This gap comes as no surprise as low socio-economic status and intimate partner violence have been reported as an important risk factor for depression. In Nigeria, over 50% of women are illiterates, and not in the labour force, and 28% and 7% of females reported experiencing physical and sexual violence in their lifetime, respectively. Many new mothers also suffer from postpartum depression, with a prevalence of 14% to 20% among new mothers in Nigeria.

3. Depressed people usually do not get help

For several reasons, many who are depressed do not usually get the help they need, despite the availability of evidence-based treatment. Some of these reasons could be the feeling of shame, stigma and discrimination – imagined and factual. More so, many Nigerians lack awareness about mental health and the availability of mental health services. 

4. Fighting depression in Nigeria is challenging

With the country’s high poverty rate and the difficulties faced by Nigerians every day, depression in Nigeria will likely continue to increase. The culture, which promotes mental health victims’ stigmatisation, will be another issue to be addressed. Furthermore, the lack of efficient and sufficient mental health services in some parts of the country is another challenge Nigerians will have to face when dealing with the issues.

A study reported that a majority of health practitioners in a health care centre in Benin City have limited knowledge of depression, with 78% of them facing difficulties in working with patients suffering from depression.

5. We all have a part to play in fighting depression

Mental health services are essential and integral parts of primary health care, and they should be universally accessible. More Nigerians should be encouraged to take up psychology and psychotherapy in universities to have more mental health practitioners in the country that meet the needs of the ever-growing number of people who will need to be treated.

It is also important that every Nigerian ensures that they are not a part of the problem by shaming victims of depression. This can only be done if the educational system is more open to educating everyone at every level on the dangers of depression and other mental health disorders.

The first step in tackling these issues is raising awareness by openly talking about it. Be a part of this conversation in your community today and help create awareness on depression in Nigeria.


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